It may sound weird but relationships should be decluttered too. I am talking about relationships with people who negatively influence your life. Want it or not but you are directly influenced by the people who surround you. Their constant criticism and demotivation will fill you up with negative energy and will not let you grow. So don’t let them rent a valuable space in your head. It is an important step otherwise you will have to return to decluttering your mental and emotional environments again and again. Instead get surrounded by positive and encouraging people and keep healthy relationships with them and love them instead of judging.

There is one essential thing everyone should understand when it comes to relationships. In everyone’s lifetime the most important relationship is the relationship with herself/himself. You just can’t have healthy relationships with others if you are not in harmony within your inner self and if you don’t accept and love yourself as you are. I don’t say that you should love yourself with all the bad habits that have a negative impact on your health and life. So at this stage it is a good idea to also declutter your habits. Get rid of the bad ones and develop good ones.

You should be the best friend for yourself, the one who doesn’t look at your past failures but encourages you to move ahead fearlessly, the one who thinks that you really rock and whose presence in the world is right and worthy. It is not selfishness it is self-love and without valuing and loving yourself you can’t value and love others.

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