Yeah phoe phoe, that is a question where we could have a discussion about for hours with alot of different people.
i will tell you what i think!
we live in a society where we judge allot of people by the cover! And we have different cultures.
My answer is WE ALL MAKE IT HOT OR NOT. it depends on your culture or who you want to be or who you want other to see you.
Sometimes you will see a tattoo chick, some people will think : " cool chick " , " cool i want that " " rude chick" it's nice but i will never do it" " slut" " disgusting" " she was not a easy teenager" ......
If you want to be a bussiness woman and people have to take you seriously they will say if you have tattoo's i will not take you seriously!
Thats why if you have a application for work they say dont show your TATTS.
But what i think... i think it's good to express yourself, if you feel you with al those things just be you.
dont do it because your beste friend have also a tong piercing! or do it because i will be fun together i dont mind hahah.
And after all i am living in the same society so also i have to accept that the way we have make things like this and i am joining the thinking, because when i was younger i didnt like tattoo's and piercing but when i got older i thought a tattoo would be nice if it has a meaning to you! and than 1 year later i thought fuckit i like it! and after than i did some model work and i thought shit it's not possible to have more tatts !
And about piercing sometimes when my beste friends says to me wauw look at that girl raunchy! and i just look and say yess i know what you mean.
It is like i am not thinking and just say it, but that is what happend allot.
But i will never bully sombody or talk with no respect because i dont like it! i always try to keep to myself and dont judge people because i dont like it if people do it with me! i am that kind of woman if i like something about you and i dont know you i will come to you and give you a compliment .
That is something most of the woman find hard to do!! they rather be jealouse and give you a nasty look and talk bad about you.

empowering that it was we should do!
Tasks for today! give somebody a compliment and film it post it on your wall!!
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