It happens that to make public the details of someone else's life becomes chronic. And keep a man from doing so can neither ethical nor pragmatic considerations.When tempted to reveal someone's secrets, imagine for a moment that this man stands behind your back. Well, got sick chat?Another option - each time before you blurt out something, wait. Perhaps a few seconds is enough for the brain to react properly and you resist the sudden urge to blurt.If you feel that you are not able to keep his mouth shut, simply refuse to listen to his companion, who wants to share with you a secret. He may be surprised, but, at least, will respect you for your honesty.If absolutely no strength to hide trusted you a secret, tell it to the man, a total stranger to the people involved in secret (eg, mother about the romance between co-workers). So you no one to substitute and satisfy their desire to tell someone a secret.And even better - burn all the mysteries (and own, and others) in a diary. You will have the feeling that you speak out, and at the same time, no one will take offense at you for talkativeness. Only for what you need to watch for is the fact that the blog does not read any of outsiders.Before you share with other sensitive information, consider the pros and cons of this act. You call up the interest, free from the burden of responsibility for the sole information storage confirm their own importance. But at the same time you will no longer be trusted, you can lose friends and earn a bad reputation talkers. That outweighs? Decide for yourself!
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