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Just read a blog posted by DanaJulia regarding to boyfriend's female friends issue.
I wanna share my story as well. I am now having a date (or whatever it’s called) with a guy whom he slept with almost all his close female friends. When I first heard that, I was so shocking and wanted to stay away from him, even rejected him right after the moment he told me his story. But he said like he just wanna confess to me and don’t want to hide me from any of his secrets. True, he told me lots of his dark side. I have been struggling for some days and it was torturing both of us. Finally, I make a move. I choose to forgive him as he promised he won't do anything same again and will be my faithful one.
What in my mind was like: At least he is willing to share all these stuff to me, maybe he really got no way out (I should be his faithful audience) or he wanted to be frank to me (I should be glad) whatever reason.
For the past incident, just leave it there. I believe everyone deserves a chance to be forgiven. Let’s bygones be bygones. He does the same, and I also do the same.
Thanks memselftrade for giving me advice, he wrote like:
"Yes if you are a child. And older guy or women deserves no chance because people who actually growed up will never change their behaviour. A child can learn but not an older person. "Just everyone deserves a chance" is not a very intelligent sentence because just look at prisoners or something else. Do you want to give these people a second chance too? Or maybe some persons who did awful things in history?”
I also believe people's intrinsic nature can’t be easily changed. But I'm just curious, curious about will he make changes for me. Let’s just play it by ear. I will be cautious in this relationship and make sure I won’t get hurt. I hope so.
I wanna share my story as well. I am now having a date (or whatever it’s called) with a guy whom he slept with almost all his close female friends. When I first heard that, I was so shocking and wanted to stay away from him, even rejected him right after the moment he told me his story. But he said like he just wanna confess to me and don’t want to hide me from any of his secrets. True, he told me lots of his dark side. I have been struggling for some days and it was torturing both of us. Finally, I make a move. I choose to forgive him as he promised he won't do anything same again and will be my faithful one.
What in my mind was like: At least he is willing to share all these stuff to me, maybe he really got no way out (I should be his faithful audience) or he wanted to be frank to me (I should be glad) whatever reason.
For the past incident, just leave it there. I believe everyone deserves a chance to be forgiven. Let’s bygones be bygones. He does the same, and I also do the same.
Thanks memselftrade for giving me advice, he wrote like:
"Yes if you are a child. And older guy or women deserves no chance because people who actually growed up will never change their behaviour. A child can learn but not an older person. "Just everyone deserves a chance" is not a very intelligent sentence because just look at prisoners or something else. Do you want to give these people a second chance too? Or maybe some persons who did awful things in history?”
I also believe people's intrinsic nature can’t be easily changed. But I'm just curious, curious about will he make changes for me. Let’s just play it by ear. I will be cautious in this relationship and make sure I won’t get hurt. I hope so.
