You are the only one who decides who you are.

All our life consists of attributes: attributes of luxury, attributes of education, attributes of healthy lifestyle. However, the existence of attributes cannot guarantee anything. Thus, trousers and shirt do not mean that a woman is not feminine, as well as an evening gown do not make a rude woman more gentle and light.

Talking about the art of being a woman I can enumerate three main states of soul: relaxation, acceptance and trust. At first sight it looks very common, however all secrets hide simple things inside.

What is relaxation? We all know that in order to be in normal healthy state we should be able to relax in time. But, how often do we remember this axiom? How often do we relax being in stress? It is paradox that in stresfull situations people try to mobilize skipping the stage of relaxation. For woman relaxation is much more important, because only a pleased relaxed calm woman can be feminine.

As soon as you relax you can accept the reality. You may note that most people live in constant resistance to something. It may be environment, social events, high prices, the weather in the end. The only result of such resistance is exhaustion, because you cannot fix and correct everything you suppose is wrong. Acceptance is impossible without relaxation, hence these two states are connected with each other.

After accepting the situation a real woman will trust. Trust is what makes a woman different from man. If we look at woman and man from traditional point of view, the man takes responsibility while the woman trusts him. If she does not trust, this alliance is impossible. Even if we look at God as a kind of masculinity, the woman should trust him.

In my opinion, a woman can be feminine only being relaxed and trustful. And no matter what job she does everyday or what clothes she wears. She can be a real boss making very important decisions for the company she works for, but stay a relaxed and happy woman. Ofcourse, a situational anger is normal, but it should not turn into constant irritability.

I am just in the beginning of this long way, however, I think, I know the secret of succesful and happy women.
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