In an ideal world we would love and be loved in equal measure. Unfortunately, we often love someone who doesn’t love us as much and in the same way in return. Love is a compex yet simple mechanism. If being loved makes you feel elated, making someone feel loved gives you double amount of joy as well. If you do not "love someone", it doesn't matter how many people "love" you--you will not feel their love as more than an ego boost.It is more important to love than to be loved, for only by loving can you "own" (i.e. feel) the experience of love and thereby participate in the potential reciprocity of love. For me important to be loved, because then you start to see in a man is something special.And then the feelings themselves come to you.What do you think about this???